Two men, both seriously
ill, occupied the same hospital room. one man was allowed to sit up in his bed
for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was
next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on
his back. The men talked for hours on end, They spoke of their wives and
families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service,
where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the man in the bed by
the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate
all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began
to live for those one hour periods where his would be broadened and enlivened
by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a
park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children
sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of
every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine
view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the
window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the
room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the
man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man
couldn't hear the band he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by
the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days and weeks passed.
one morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find
the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his
sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body
away.
As soon as it seemed
appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The
nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable,
she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to
take his first look at the world outside. Finally, he would have the joy of
seeing it for himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside
the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have
compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside
this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see
the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.
Epilogue ... There is
tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite your own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. If you
want to feel rich, just count all of the things you have that money can't buy.
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